Saturday, August 13, 2011
Pregnant but boyfriend is not supportive?
I am almost 6 weeks pregnant, just found out 2 days ago by getting 3 positive pregnancy tests. I am in a relationship with a great guy. He is 26 and I am 22. We have only been together a few months, but have known each other for over a year. Neither of us was exactly ready for a baby, but the way we always talked about it was if it happened we would be ok and take care of our responsibilities (neither of us believes in abortion). Well, when I found out I wa so nervous to tell him but I figured, he loves me he might not be happy but he will be supportive. Boy was I wrong. First he said "I hope you aren't expecting me to be happy cuz I'm not." Then he just got quiet and played his video games. I gave him a few minutes and then went to sit next to him and asked him if we could talk and he said he had nothing to say. I asked him if he wanted me to leave and he just shrugged his shoulders. Then HE left. He came back and told me he would just see me another time. I started crying and got my stuff and started walking to my car. He grabbed me and hugged me and kissed me and said he would call me later, so that made me feel a little better, but then after I was on my way home he started texting me. He basically told me he can't afford another kid (he already has a 2 year old daughter) and he shoud have just kept his stuff in his pants and how he wished we never met so this wouldnt have happened and how after his ex finds out he will never get to see his daughter again util she is 18 and it's all ym fault and when I asked him did he love me like he said he does he just didnt respond. Now he isn't talking to me and I just feel like crying constantly. I'm so hurt, and it feels like he is blaming me for this but it takes 2 people to make a baby. I just want my child to have a good life with 2 supportive parents and now I'm so scared and lost......What do I do?????????????????
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